NO CONDEMNATION
ROMANS 8:1-11 :: CHRIS MEADE :: AUGUST 9
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
1. Where did the Holy Spirit speak or challenge you through God’s Word? Were there any “ah-ha” moments?
2. READ ROMANS 7:24-8:1
Heart Check: Paul declares, “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Where are you most tempted to live under guilt, shame, or the feeling that God is disappointed with you? If God does not condemn us or feel ashamed of us–why do we do this to ourselves?
Paul emphasized that if you belong to Jesus, your position is “in Christ.” The Father cannot condemn you because He cannot condemn His own Son. How does knowing that your standing with God is based on what Jesus has done rather than how well you performed this week, nor how guilty or sad you felt, change the way you approach God after you fail?
How would truly believing Romans 8:1 change the way you relate to God, yourself, and others?
3. READ ROMANS 8:2-8
Inspect the Fruit: The sermon encouraged us to ask, “What fruit is this bearing?” Think about a situation or conflict that is currently affecting you. Is it producing love, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—or bitterness, anger, division, selfishness, shame, or resentment?
What might that reveal about what is currently directing you?
You can’t control people’s actions. Often your circumstances are out of your control. How would it look for you to focus on YOU–and making sure YOU are operating in the Spirit in this? What would change?
4. READ ROMANS 8:9-11
The same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead lives in every follower of Christ. What is one area of your life—an attitude, relationship, temptation, fear, habit, or decision—where you desperately need His power right now? What specific prayer or step of obedience can you take this week to surrender that area to Him?
EXTRA TOOLS:
HOW DO WE MOVE FROM BEING IN THE FLESH TO IN THE SPIRIT???
1. RECOGNIZE THE FRUIT. ASK: WHAT FRUIT IS THIS BEARING? Self-condemnation, SHAME, bitterness, resentment, rage, clashing relationships, factions—are NOT of GOD. Some of you are living and experiencing the defeated life—because you think this fruit of the flesh is NORMAL. This is what you have known for so many years.
2. RECOGNIZE RESPONDING IN THE FLESH OR IN THE SPIRIT—IS A CHOICE. The Spirit has set you free to choose something better. You are NOT a victim to your flesh, to your history, to your past hurts, or your pain. You in Christ, now CHOOSE how you respond.
3. RECOGNIZE THAT YOU ONLY CONTROL YOU. You don’t control your circumstances. And you don’t control how other people act or respond—be it in the flesh or the Spirit. You only control how you respond—and what choice you make. What are you going to give power to in that moment?
4. RECOGNIZE THIS IS A DAY-BY-DAY, HOUR-BY-HOUR, SOMETIMES MINUTE-BY-MINUTE DECISION. You are not defeated. You are in Christ, empowered by the Spirit.
5. PRAY. SEEK THE VOICE OF THE SPIRIT. Turn to God, rather than destructive actions. ASK: Empower me to live, respond, and react in a way that bears the FRUIT of the SPIRIT?
SPIRIT DIRECTED COMMUNICATION:
1. FOCUS ON SCRIPTURE AND MAINTAIN PRAYER. “Test the spirits…” (1 John 4:1) by assessing the “voice” and direction you hear from the Spirit–to make sure what you are hearing is of God. God cannot contradict His Word… and will not lead you away from obedience to it.
2. PAUSE BEFORE REACTING OR RESPONDING. Recognize when you are moving into the FLESH and responding in the FLESH with anger, bitterness, fear, etc. Pray and respond when in the Spirit (with calm, patience, confidence, care, selfless love, etc.). Take breaks if needed.
3. REPENT QUICKLY. FORGIVE QUICKLY. The most healing words you can say in a tense moment are: "I WAS WRONG BY…(clearly name and articulate the action). I AM SORRY. WILL YOU FORGIVE ME?" When you have responded and acted fleshly, recognize it and say this quickly. /// On the opposite end, if someone repents and asks for forgiveness, forgive quickly and release them from the bitterness and retribution you might desire.